3 Reasons Women Should Make The First Move

I’m all about courting and chivalry, but sometime’s men just don’t have any game, and it gets a little old waiting for them. We are strong independent women and should be taking the reigns every once in awhile to go after what we want.

There’s no need to ponder over the fact he hasn’t called yet so instead of getting butt hurt make the first move to figure out if he’s interested or not. Hell, go up to an attractive guy and ask him out for a change and he probably won’t even know what to do with himself.

We always express how we want men to walk in our shoes every once in awhile so we should do the same and understand the fear of rejection they face every time they gain the courage to pursue someone.

1.Breaking Stereotypes:

Males are the particular gender that “should” be doing all the asking out and pursuing but not anymore! This is the 21st century so get with the times and go out of your way to ask your crush out!

The worst thing they could say is no and not be interested, but at least you can say you tried. There is no harm in putting yourself out there and try not to let your ego get in the way.

I can only imagine how tiring and annoying it gets to be a male that has to constantly get out of their comfort zone to approach women instead of it being a level playing field.


To be in control and have the power to ask whoever we want whenever we want out sometimes takes a whole lot of courage.

There’s something about rewriting the rules and following your heart that makes you feel like you can rule the world.

It’s not the end of the world if you get denied, but it does show you a new part of the dating world where you have just as much say in who you want to pursue as men do. If you see someone, you like then go for it! Not only will you be admired and impressive but it’s a way to feel proud of yourself.

3. Confidence Is Key:

Scrounging up enough courage to ask someone out is half of the battle and following through is the other. Obviously, the outcome plays a role, but the fact that you put yourself out there shows you have enough confidence in yourself to go after what you want.

Men have feelings the same as women and often get scared of rejection and being turned down repeatedly. If you take a stance and are confident that they will reciprocate the feelings, then go for it! Even if it’s totally out of nowhere and you want to take the leap you could be speeding up this dating process rather than waiting around for him to ask you out.

There are no specific rules to dating, just the ridiculous societal ones we all abide by for no reason. Put in the effort and take the chance because you never know who might be too intimidated and nervous to ask you in the first place.

If you want to learn more about this, check out the video below!  Or if you want to try a dating app that lets women make the first move then check out bumble!